On the other hand, it is difficult to place my hard work into someone else's hands. It's hard for me to come to terms with the fact that this person who knows nothing about my life or the story that I am telling is going to tell me how to fix it. It makes me fairly nervous to be honest.
Yet, this is very common practice for me. I don't typically trust myself, and I really do like to hear other people comment on my work. I have a favorite "editor" who typically reads my stuff and is honest (like the time he asked me if I was asleep while writing my ENG 111 research paper).
I think this is absolutely essential in the classroom. Students are able to practice many different skills. Of course, there are the obvious language arts skills (reading, writing, grammar, etc), but students also practice social and emotional skills as they bravely hand their hard work over to another peer. For this reason, I think it would be best to either keep the same partner for at least half of the year, or to let the students chose their own partners when peer conferencing.
Who would think that language arts would be so emotional...maybe I made it too emotional.

I can relate very well to this feeling! I am a nervous wreck at every public author reading of my children's book. It is my life's dream in paperback and I am so fearful that it will be criticized or crushed in an instant by someone who does not know me or my story. I like your suggestion of a conferencing buddy. Writing is emotional so the sharing will be as well. Insightful post!
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